A few days ago, I found out that an acquaintance of mine passed away. His name was Red. He was someone I knew during my tenure at UCSF. His employment matched his personality like a glove as he was a member of the Arts & Events department. In other words, he worked for the place that handled "fun" in one of the nations most prominent medical schools. His outgoing personality was infectuous. I have spent time with him in few social settings as well as one or two up-close and personal conversations. But in what few moments I shared with Red, I enjoyed. This news came as a shock, because Red isn't someone you would perceive is old enough to die of natural causes (he passed on due to complications from pneumonia).
I recently attended a memorial serivice in his honor. It was a reception of many, both from within his department and from outside, all of which called him family. His great personality is matched with his generosity as I found out, as he gave himself freely to individuals that needed him, or just needed laughter. I reveled in his memory as I listened to those that were close to him speak about his life. The Red I knew was a good man. And that day, I found out he was apparently more.
I wasn't close to Red. But you didn't have to be. Red was my friend. And he was a good human being who had more heart than many that walk the earth. And because I wasn't as close, I am robbed of the opportunity to get to know him better than I should have.
Good people shouldn't just disappear from our lives. I will miss him.